Motivation is one of
the great paradoxes of life. You need it
to do it, but to do it you need it.
Through my interaction
with people at all levels of leadership, I would have to say that motivation
would be one of the most elusive qualities of leadership.
I have worked with
people who possess a high level of self-motivation, others who require constant
motivation from external sources, those who have lost their will to motivate or
be motivated; and then there are those who can’t be motivated, even with a
stick of dynamite.
Well, I’m one of those
annoying people who never seem to lack motivation, to the point of exhausting
every one else around me. As a teenager
doing casual work during school holidays, my boss used to say to me “Slow down
Robert, or we’ll run out of work for you to do.” In the early years of my Drafting traineeship,
I managed to juggle 3 hours of travelling a day on public transport, full-time
employment, night school, study and leadership responsibilities at my church. During my two years at Officer Training
College, the Training Principal encouraged me to enrol in external studies
alongside my Salvation Army Officer Training to feed my insatiable
motivation to learn. Throughout my ministry my
motivation has only intensified as I have found my niche in fulfilling God’s
calling on my life. And as a parent,
what can I say, God saw fit to bless us with twins…need I say more?
Yet, despite my type-A
personality and overstimulated motivation, there are always areas of my personal
life, elements of my ministry or responsibilities at home where I would fail
the self-motivation test. In some
circumstances I too need to be motivated by external sources and there are even
rarer occasions where I lack motivation altogether.
Even though I am
naturally a highly motivated person and as a leader it is my desire to motivate
and develop other leaders, this has been one of those qualities that I have
struggled to articulate or transfer well.
People have been inspired by my self-motivation, but when I’m asked
about ‘what motivates me?’ or ‘how do I stay motivated?’ I have been unable to
offer any tangible principles or practices beyond sharing my own
experiences. This has frustrated me and
I’m certain it has discouraged those who are trying to get motivated or stay
motivated.
Leadership development
is my passion and I read everything I can get my hands on about leadership, but
to-date, motivation has still remained a rather elusive subject. We have all heard “motivational speakers”, but
it is the mechanics of motivation that have remained a mystery to me until I
heard John Maxwell (a leading leadership author and teacher) make a single
statement about motivation in one of his teaching resources. It was one of those “aha” moments that inspired
me to develop this leadership resource on motivation. In a video session from his “Developing the
Leaders Around You” series, Maxwell quoted someone as saying, “Forget motivation, just do it! Do it without motivation and then after you
start doing the thing, that’s when the motivation comes and makes it easy for
you to keep on doing it.”
It occurred to me that
the beginning of motivation lies in a decision:
A decision for change, a decision for an alternative reality, a decision
to think, do or be different! When I
applied this theory to areas of my life where I have demonstrated a high level
of motivation, all of a sudden this elusive quality that I have found difficult
to define began to make sense. Take for
example my weight loss success. Why is
it that after 10 years of being overweight and physically inactive that all of
sudden I “find motivation” to change my lifestyle? The truth is I didn’t, motivation didn’t just
miraculously appear! A series of events
prompted a decision to respond to
the realisation that I was no longer content with the way I was and something
had to change. That decision was
followed by an action, which led to
a change of behaviour. I resolved to do
things different, so as to produce a different result. These results
generated a new found energy,
inspiring me to maintain this process until I achieved the desired
outcome. Motivation was not found, but
generated by a cycle of behaviours that began with a point of decision. Motivation then became the force that empowered
me to transform a desire into a life changing reality!
This pattern, when
applied to other areas of my life, including work responsibilities, family
life, study pursuits, and spiritual development, revealed a remarkable degree
of consistency in its application. In
each instance the process of decision,
action, results and energy were
key components in the cycle of motivation.
It is from this understanding and application of the mechanics of
motivation that I have developed the ‘Cycle
of Motivation’ model as a tool to help people get motivated and stay
motivated.
Contact Major Robert Evans at EphesiansFour12@gmail.com for more information and training opportunities for the "Cycle of Motivation" model.
Contact Major Robert Evans at EphesiansFour12@gmail.com for more information and training opportunities for the "Cycle of Motivation" model.
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