tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28922160054457132992024-03-19T14:34:25.386+11:00EphesiansFour12Pursuing a Passion for the LORD, the LOST, LIFE and LEADERSHIPEphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.comBlogger437125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-21076092774762312292019-05-23T17:04:00.001+10:002019-05-23T17:26:47.247+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands District #14<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiuc_hVVLE-p95cbkW7QBCtedIBgrriL8M0LZmBxanJqmdylxKGfDXcQqwXY3vh36uNBaXFgd5iYn-YM44bL87eY8L-R84xtL8NA_4rLxv1NjuzdUsX1xGKA5F0FoZZStjrhZqk2WuoCuY/s1600/1-IMG_1555.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="480" data-original-width="640" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiuc_hVVLE-p95cbkW7QBCtedIBgrriL8M0LZmBxanJqmdylxKGfDXcQqwXY3vh36uNBaXFgd5iYn-YM44bL87eY8L-R84xtL8NA_4rLxv1NjuzdUsX1xGKA5F0FoZZStjrhZqk2WuoCuY/s200/1-IMG_1555.JPG" width="200" /></a><a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2019/05/solomon-islands-district-saes.html"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Solomon Islands District - SAES</span></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 14.85px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands </span><a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2019/05/solomon-islands-district-saes.html" style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: white; color: #6666cc; font-size: 14.85px; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-align: start; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a></span>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-55641054077298005352019-05-23T16:44:00.001+10:002019-05-23T16:51:16.600+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands District #13<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIyczC2b3Ue9Lh6E93_FOZB4ynfPac-7O_jebmOVEfMteVV9XXbJ-1YcSl9adwke-8b_DrIHrj6M5lReh7hq6MUaey17JS2a1z6TZlXaVJnUjAd6ejq9jDoZ-i9MAeaQiTNkpCbOeCxnQ/s1600/1-IMG_5853.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="480" data-original-width="640" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIyczC2b3Ue9Lh6E93_FOZB4ynfPac-7O_jebmOVEfMteVV9XXbJ-1YcSl9adwke-8b_DrIHrj6M5lReh7hq6MUaey17JS2a1z6TZlXaVJnUjAd6ejq9jDoZ-i9MAeaQiTNkpCbOeCxnQ/s200/1-IMG_5853.JPG" width="200" /></a><a href="https://www.blogger.com/"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span id="goog_1333527405"></span>Solomon Islands District - Music Workshops<span id="goog_1333527406"></span></span></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 14.85px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands </span><a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2019/05/solomon-islands-district-music-workshops.html" style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: white; color: #6666cc; font-size: 14.85px; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-align: start; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a></span>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-89972260976505366962018-07-28T09:44:00.001+10:002018-07-28T09:47:08.240+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands Ministries #12<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh26O7fiqWQbYkumKrEK4koqhggTbn-l7izu8z89K5SC_q2nImdndnjKwtFNntPJpwMxc7lk4pi9fY9JpWNTjFcog8qGYhnhNTzYUW3UG-70YeF43uLUraME7hhkq73wBFPX-NdCuwt6ok/s1600/24-_MG_3548.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="360" data-original-width="480" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh26O7fiqWQbYkumKrEK4koqhggTbn-l7izu8z89K5SC_q2nImdndnjKwtFNntPJpwMxc7lk4pi9fY9JpWNTjFcog8qGYhnhNTzYUW3UG-70YeF43uLUraME7hhkq73wBFPX-NdCuwt6ok/s200/24-_MG_3548.JPG" width="200" /></a><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/07/solomon-islands-ministries-salvation.html?spref=bl">Solomon Islands Ministries - Salvation Army Convention</a> </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands </span><a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/07/solomon-islands-ministries-salvation.html" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-53954252459594132592018-07-18T13:57:00.001+10:002018-07-18T16:22:15.053+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands Ministries #11<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGJ4A8ATaURRIyrXVtfagKtn17UGXP4yQ4VJ_jaELbrfw_mB1OhNitddvtP_SsKdU7wBdePgaUHC7d-pc4bHQ5n-BTZZ-jn7aQn6_PuJP0U4D9ORR91YT0-bc0y8T_VG4sRshBxOhbXzI/s1600/_MG_3196.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" height="133" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGJ4A8ATaURRIyrXVtfagKtn17UGXP4yQ4VJ_jaELbrfw_mB1OhNitddvtP_SsKdU7wBdePgaUHC7d-pc4bHQ5n-BTZZ-jn7aQn6_PuJP0U4D9ORR91YT0-bc0y8T_VG4sRshBxOhbXzI/s200/_MG_3196.JPG" width="200" /></a><a href="http://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/07/solomon-islands-ministries-red-shield.html?spref=bl"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Solomon Islands Ministries - Red Shield Appeal Dinner</span></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands </span><a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/07/solomon-islands-ministries-red-shield.html" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-90663009780054636162018-07-18T13:53:00.001+10:002018-07-18T16:21:36.348+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands Ministries #10<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwWNOHINw0SVaAZ3B8rL8vIDDj9xkaaYSpCCep1ZG-8McsM-eHXS8zgtWsh2HdcnNgdE2bZXnO6ZF0EatJrwts_WxcxA2JYB1Ua4aaaIlF6tD-E8EOpXlntGQvlcU-h9BFRanlUQ8l_JY/s1600/36307360_10217322891451392_5137799093912862720_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="720" data-original-width="960" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwWNOHINw0SVaAZ3B8rL8vIDDj9xkaaYSpCCep1ZG-8McsM-eHXS8zgtWsh2HdcnNgdE2bZXnO6ZF0EatJrwts_WxcxA2JYB1Ua4aaaIlF6tD-E8EOpXlntGQvlcU-h9BFRanlUQ8l_JY/s200/36307360_10217322891451392_5137799093912862720_n.jpg" width="200" /></a><a href="http://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/07/solomon-islands-ministries-territorial.html?spref=bl"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Solomon Islands Ministries - Territorial Leaders Conference</span></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands </span><a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/07/solomon-islands-ministries-territorial.html" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-37216456330653978592018-07-18T13:45:00.001+10:002018-07-18T16:21:58.641+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands Ministries #9<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWApdaJL2_ohNNYPQaIh9LqfN8r7G_7fbFlz9kTuTrEOH0i3QrYkSEP87eKRwjRvAluMB-ROhxYDER0E-yi7jo72WRJlYlLATHgby2yJxx7au0qAA2znD_ek9gsVCyuR5BWB8iM__b7UA/s1600/IMG_4171.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="1600" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWApdaJL2_ohNNYPQaIh9LqfN8r7G_7fbFlz9kTuTrEOH0i3QrYkSEP87eKRwjRvAluMB-ROhxYDER0E-yi7jo72WRJlYlLATHgby2yJxx7au0qAA2znD_ek9gsVCyuR5BWB8iM__b7UA/s200/IMG_4171.JPG" width="200" /></a><a href="http://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/06/solomon-islands-ministries-return-to.html?spref=bl"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Solomon Islands Ministries - Return to Kwai</span></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands </span><a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/06/solomon-islands-ministries-return-to.html" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-18196946083615112932018-07-18T13:37:00.001+10:002018-07-18T16:22:42.420+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands Ministries #8<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhb6IhC2cHcySQT0nqmKpDWQ_yECRZILG4PxI8CiolYHPB1D7FVYcKrnsWBsCc9CHpnH2Xted8Gd8OAg8vc7wZ1XfMi6Oii9P-7QWN_D9BOfExrQdwVNg73hgZMj9rXuQaYLPoNnETmmKc/s1600/IMG_3465.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="1600" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhb6IhC2cHcySQT0nqmKpDWQ_yECRZILG4PxI8CiolYHPB1D7FVYcKrnsWBsCc9CHpnH2Xted8Gd8OAg8vc7wZ1XfMi6Oii9P-7QWN_D9BOfExrQdwVNg73hgZMj9rXuQaYLPoNnETmmKc/s200/IMG_3465.jpg" width="200" /></a><a href="http://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/05/solomon-islands-ministries-return-to.html?spref=bl"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Solomon Islands Ministries - Return to Moscom</span></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands <a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/05/solomon-islands-ministries-return-to.html" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a></span>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-69042083038231900032018-07-18T13:30:00.001+10:002018-07-18T16:23:00.467+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands Ministries #7<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvC6Hosqk8cPY0ub5Afu2P3AOztxPjN9NjbmZpilZKSjiLCuzKf9oPRk4kjDJDYOmoS_YdaeHU7cn_zXgAW4JtpEdiAWOhRlZUquzfYIkFqwxcXGNJcFZXsBBBPEloi3piARIMpYcWUv0/s1600/Easter+2018.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1065" data-original-width="1600" height="133" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvC6Hosqk8cPY0ub5Afu2P3AOztxPjN9NjbmZpilZKSjiLCuzKf9oPRk4kjDJDYOmoS_YdaeHU7cn_zXgAW4JtpEdiAWOhRlZUquzfYIkFqwxcXGNJcFZXsBBBPEloi3piARIMpYcWUv0/s200/Easter+2018.jpg" width="200" /></a><a href="http://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/04/solomon-islands-ministries-easter.html?spref=bl"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Solomon Islands Ministries - Easter</span></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands </span><a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/04/solomon-islands-ministries-easter.html" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-83704934196998202242018-07-18T13:23:00.001+10:002018-07-18T16:23:33.376+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands Ministries #6<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFIrSBloSusPMl99avnGpgNW-ea_oupdqLGfU47HSgkEP2eVGG8miL_CZkP5CGsIehzcW69POiE19TCIPiKSBtAXBxu2_iAq1N0zyi7H8PDszLz_Ci3ByAQEOxAIpdk5tljpOod__k0CY/s1600/Auki+Mission.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="720" data-original-width="720" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFIrSBloSusPMl99avnGpgNW-ea_oupdqLGfU47HSgkEP2eVGG8miL_CZkP5CGsIehzcW69POiE19TCIPiKSBtAXBxu2_iAq1N0zyi7H8PDszLz_Ci3ByAQEOxAIpdk5tljpOod__k0CY/s200/Auki+Mission.jpg" width="200" /></a><a href="http://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/03/solomon-islands-ministries-auki-mission.html?spref=bl"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Solomon Islands Ministries - Auki Mission</span></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands </span><a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/03/solomon-islands-ministries-auki-mission.html" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-89427312296047644152018-07-17T22:21:00.001+10:002018-07-18T16:24:07.075+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands Ministries #5<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLulTSILOBnA1ATOstShnqEejhYpfa-2BpV8Q-qPnSmVhR1oXrUiuBUVQ_xHjW2cMBBitiANt0Jg45rZGffohHUbHIh7bQ0iO0byoXZ0j-iTHxrGV9ZLJA28it1hrZ2z25lonfdg4ukxY/s1600/IWD2018+b.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="720" data-original-width="960" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLulTSILOBnA1ATOstShnqEejhYpfa-2BpV8Q-qPnSmVhR1oXrUiuBUVQ_xHjW2cMBBitiANt0Jg45rZGffohHUbHIh7bQ0iO0byoXZ0j-iTHxrGV9ZLJA28it1hrZ2z25lonfdg4ukxY/s200/IWD2018+b.jpg" width="200" /></a><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/03/solomon-islands-ministries.html?spref=bl">Solomon Islands Ministries - International Women's Day</a> </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands </span><span id="goog_1684986991" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"></span><a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/03/solomon-islands-ministries.html" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a><br />
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<br />EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-29624152482106111062018-02-20T00:31:00.000+11:002018-02-20T10:39:35.457+11:00Loving You - Silver Jubilee Edition<div style="text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">The song I wrote for Vanessa 25 years ago for our wedding day has grown by yet another verse as we celebrate our Silver Jubilee Wedding Anniversary today. These verses capture my love and our life at each milestone in our marriage as we have journeyed together to fulfill the vows we made as husband and wife...</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">When I hold your hand</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">And look into your eyes,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I can’t help to reminisce</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">The days gone by.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">For I see the Master’s plan</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Has brought us hand in hand,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">And I know His Spirit’s</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Touched us with His love.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Loving you, holding you,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Has filled an empty place </i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Within my life. </i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Praise you Lord, thank you Lord, </i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>For giving me the one I truly love. </i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Friends we were and are</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">And will for ever be.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">We would laugh and cry and share</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Each others dreams.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Lord, you took two separate lives,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">With love you harmonised.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Now we’re joined together</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">By your precious love.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Loving you, holding you,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Has filled an empty place</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Within my life.</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Praise you Lord, thank you Lord,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>For giving me the one</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>I truly love.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">20th February 1993</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">First Wedding Anniversary</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">As we celebrate</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Our Anniversary,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I am thankful for your love</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">And company.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">For I know within my heart</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Our lives will never part,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">While Jesus is the</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Centre of our love.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Loving you, holding you,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Has filled an empty place</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Within my life.</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Praise you Lord, thank you Lord,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>For giving me the one</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>I truly love.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">20th February 1994</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Fifth Wedding Anniversary</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">You and I have shared</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Our love these past five years,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Though we’ve faced some storms and shed</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Some painful tears.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">We have given God His place</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">And drawn upon His grace,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">So we’ll stay committed</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">For eternity.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i><br /></i></span></span>
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Loving you, holding you,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Has filled an empty place</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Within my life.</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Praise you Lord, thank you Lord,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>For giving me the one</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>I truly love.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">20th February 1998</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Birth of Children</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">We have come into</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">A new reality</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">As you’ve given birth to our</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">New family.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">First, a precious little girl</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Was born into this world,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Closely followed by a</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Handsome baby boy.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Loving them, holding them,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Has given me a joy</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>I can’t explain,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Praise you Lord, Thank you Lord,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>For this family of mine</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>That I’ve now gained.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">7th April 2000</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Fifteenth Wedding Anniversary</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Fifteen years ago</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I gave to you my life,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">On our wedding day when you</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Became my wife.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I declared to you my love</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Before the Lord above,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Which we celebrate on</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">This, our special day.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Loving you, holding you,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Has filled an empty place</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Within my life.</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Praise you Lord, thank you Lord,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>For giving me the one</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>I truly love.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">20th February 2008</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">Twentieth Wedding Anniversary</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">For two decades now</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">We’ve lived each others dreams,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Which have filled our lives with joy</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">And memories.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">There is nothing I would trade</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">For the life that we have made,</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">And the path the Lord has</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Granted you and me.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Loving you, holding you,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Has filled an empty place</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Within my life.</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Praise you Lord, thank you Lord,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>For giving me the one</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>I truly love.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">20th February 2013</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">On this day we mark</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Our Silver Jubilee</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Of the covenant between</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">You, God and me.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Now this journey God ordained</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Has brought about a change</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">That has left our children</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Far across the seas.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Loving you, loving them,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Has filled my life with joy</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Throughout the years.</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>Praise you Lord, Thank you Lord,</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>For strengthening our faith</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><i>And family.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">20th February 2018</span></span><br />
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EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-35061074446627810042018-02-07T01:16:00.002+11:002018-02-07T11:34:40.968+11:00Echoes of Another<div style="text-align: center;">
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">"In my distress I called to the Lord, and he answered me." (Jonah 2:2)</span></i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">It was around 3:00 am sandwiched between my camera bag, where I was leaning my head, and a group of teenage girls who were literally sitting on top of each other in a desperate attempt to shield themselves from the rain, that I felt a level of distress I cannot ever recall experiencing before. We had already been on the boat for 35 hours on our journey back to Honiara from the east coast of Malaita, and the conditions on the open sea had deteriorated with waves splashing onto the deck and rain lashing against the tarps that were flapping furiously in the wind, providing minimal protection for the 200+ passengers on board. Together with <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">an electrical fault that caused the rust<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">y</span> metal floor in fro<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">nt</span> of us to become electrified, nobody was having a good time! </span> </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">In that moment, <i>I did call out to the Lord in my distress</i> from underneath the pandanas mat my travel companion unselfishly shared with me in an attempt to protect me from the elements. Somewhere between my tiredness and borderline seasickness I found myself praying, <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">'</span>Lord, get us to dry land or end it now!<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">'</span> From the security and comfort of my living room my prayer now sounds a little melodramatic and somewhat irrational for a man of faith. However, after two sleepless nights on an overcrowded, unseaworthy vessel with a crew who were uncertain of our exact location (the disadvantage of sitting next to the cabin with someone who could understand the frantic conversation between the captain and crew), rational thought had long escaped me!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">God answered me in a most unexpected way! Dry land was still three hours away and the boat stayed afloat, but God confronted me with a very personal and powerful reminder of a family who took a similar journey to Australia five years ago. For the first time their story that had previously received deep sympathy from me, now evoked a deeper empathy as a small part of their journey became my reality. These conditions that I had absolutely no control over all of a sudden made their story very real for me!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">I remember when I first met the Afshar family from Afghanistan. As I listened to their story of how they escaped <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">serious</span> threats from the Taliban by boarding a small boat that took them on a long and dangerous journey through Malaysia, I struggled to imagine the sort of conditions they would have experienced. I had absolutely no doubt that their story was true. But as a person who at that point had never sailed longer than an hour on a comfortable and well equipped passenger ferry, with room to move around and enjoy the journey, it was difficult to really connect with their experience. Their journey across the ocean was a compelling tale that was far removed from anything I had ever experienced or could imagine experiencing. Until now! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">While the similarities between our respective journeys start and end with a boat trip, I found this uninvited reminder of another family's distress in the midst of my own a profoundly emotional experience. It right-sized my own circumstances and redirected my reality towards the reality of another. For the next few moments I imagined myself sitting alongside the Afshar family with their bodies leaning against mine, sharing the same pandanas mat to protect each other from the discomfort of a shared experience. In my distress I was given a rare gift to feel the distress of another more deeply than I thought was possible. Pakistani novelist Mohsin Hamid is quoted as saying, <i>"Empathy is about finding echoes of another person in yourself." </i> Out there on that ocean in the dead of the night and during a raging storm, I found the echoes of another family in myself. My prayer now is that those echoes will resound through <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">a mo<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">re empathetic</span></span> life and ministry as I continue to pursue a passion for the LORD, the LOST, LIFE and LEADERSHIP!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Would I want to go through an experience like this again? Absolutely not! Am I grateful that I did? Overwhelmingly so!!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">This post is dedicated to the courage and <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">resilience </span>of Aziz & Masuda with <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">their children Ali, Nagus and Zara, and Moha<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">mmad & Mariam with their children Satiash a<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">nd Daniel.</span></span></span></span><span style="font-size: x-small;"> </span></i></span></div>
<span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-45337560605482835032018-02-06T21:51:00.001+11:002018-07-18T16:24:28.778+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands Ministries #4<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCw4wxSaPXIr-OPI1WKLb12cLMaWjdagiYojO1mZ85cnCnKygK5OIJ8Wj_-A2Q6CZtEXhTy2i01pDBUNqFyIj1sZlL_e3rT5Yd0vIPXoutxuqmilIXwgxWZ_drSe7TOGjOaddNAGSaTkc/s1600/_MG_9107.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" height="133" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCw4wxSaPXIr-OPI1WKLb12cLMaWjdagiYojO1mZ85cnCnKygK5OIJ8Wj_-A2Q6CZtEXhTy2i01pDBUNqFyIj1sZlL_e3rT5Yd0vIPXoutxuqmilIXwgxWZ_drSe7TOGjOaddNAGSaTkc/s200/_MG_9107.JPG" width="200" /></a><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/02/solomon-islands-ministries-south.html?spref=bl">Solomon Islands Ministries - South Malaita Visit</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands </span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/" style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif;" target="_blank"><span id="goog_1684986991"></span>[click link to read]<span id="goog_1684986992"></span></a><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-8152161311850355262018-01-10T10:32:00.001+11:002018-07-18T16:24:48.390+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands Ministries #3<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrd92P957-3WNx7xXSdiRAJG9hseddIyR-PsVfdoSTbgmZLKeszukEPALbL3o8Mc-wEtpMDR6-gtXchNmjHm-6MC2sn5rdirA6fYfgoC_wK3DagxLrSs4neV7jNNWPW48iLuR73B84RIM/s1600/_MG_8347.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" height="133" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrd92P957-3WNx7xXSdiRAJG9hseddIyR-PsVfdoSTbgmZLKeszukEPALbL3o8Mc-wEtpMDR6-gtXchNmjHm-6MC2sn5rdirA6fYfgoC_wK3DagxLrSs4neV7jNNWPW48iLuR73B84RIM/s200/_MG_8347.JPG" width="200" /></a><a href="http://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/01/solomon-islands-ministries-north.html?spref=bl" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Solomon Islands Ministries - North Malaita Visit</span></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands <a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2018/01/solomon-islands-ministries-north.html" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-70607098126950802942017-12-30T22:40:00.001+11:002018-07-18T16:25:09.632+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands Ministries #2<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjwTqSbaUWn9SCuNLVP7z693OOgrmJcqCU02rUNEbYbjYG3iwY787-8D1v_ZC7o0sTp-17RcJIbqGrsOtPkYn8sUJuvOH2P0cxavhmHyowZVvsNhUSO5VU21WY6MEEUPtlCe3m7Xg5gYI/s1600/IMG_7924.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" height="133" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjwTqSbaUWn9SCuNLVP7z693OOgrmJcqCU02rUNEbYbjYG3iwY787-8D1v_ZC7o0sTp-17RcJIbqGrsOtPkYn8sUJuvOH2P0cxavhmHyowZVvsNhUSO5VU21WY6MEEUPtlCe3m7Xg5gYI/s200/IMG_7924.JPG" width="200" /></a><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2017/12/solomon-islands-ministries-beauty-among.html" target="_blank">Solomon Islands Ministries - Beauty Among The Ruins</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands <a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2017/12/solomon-islands-ministries-beauty-among.html" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a>.</span>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-71388297639427986302017-12-28T19:48:00.001+11:002018-07-18T16:25:29.496+10:00Mission Trip Reflections: Solomon Islands Ministries #1<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiB3d2DVQqZ_e5xY-1ZT7mSiVDP6S9-2QIQ3O8c66nLIbEjGauHRSy-PTyCjd33N_K7124WQjE-tVEmhiSGj0WjXFrqZQ1XqLcKnHwCfJLeOmmuoleXS6hvD47Idj_c28ImLqyuQt9no4E/s1600/24993606_10215615063396758_8170819125621594590_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="720" data-original-width="960" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiB3d2DVQqZ_e5xY-1ZT7mSiVDP6S9-2QIQ3O8c66nLIbEjGauHRSy-PTyCjd33N_K7124WQjE-tVEmhiSGj0WjXFrqZQ1XqLcKnHwCfJLeOmmuoleXS6hvD47Idj_c28ImLqyuQt9no4E/s200/24993606_10215615063396758_8170819125621594590_n.jpg" width="200" /></a><a href="http://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2017/12/solomon-islands-ministries.html?spref=bl" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Solomon Islands Ministries...</span></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Follow our journey as I share thoughts and reflections about the development and growth of The Salvation Army in the Solomon Islands <a href="https://ephesiansfour12missions.blogspot.com/2017/12/solomon-islands-ministries.html" target="_blank">[click link to read]</a>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-80127992789306540072017-08-29T19:17:00.000+10:002017-08-29T20:56:43.356+10:00Love Is...What??<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">LOVE. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Pop culture has come up with many suggestions, which have been broadly expressed through popular music over the past few decades...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Tina Turner</b> lamented, <i>"What's love, but a second hand emotion" </i></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Pat Benatar</b> declared, <i>"Love is a battlefield"</i></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Bette Midler</b> suggested, <i>"Some say love, is a river, that drowns the tender reed"... </i>among other things!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">In the movie <b>Frozen, Hans and Anna</b> shared the view that, <i>"Love is an open door"</i></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Alannah Myles</b> decided, <i>"Love is what you want it to be"</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>McFly</b> celebrated, <i>"If this is love, then love is easy"</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Barry White</b> acknowledged that, <i>"Love ain't easy"</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Foreigner </b>had no idea, asking, <i>"I want to know what love is"</i></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Neither did <b>Haddaway </b>who repeatedly asked the question, </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Who gets to define love?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">What are the parameters for love? </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Should there be any limitations to love?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">If the tone of current social dialogue is any indicator, there seems to be a resurgence of the 60's free love social movement where all forms of love are accepted. This liberated view of love has been recently amplified by the following two popular phrases making their rounds through social and mainstream media:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">"Love is love." </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">"Love is never wrong."</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">On the surface, these two statements present an all inclusive view of love and define love as something that cannot be contained by cultural, religious or social values. This is an ideology that suggests love should transcend the complex values that make up a diverse society. Yet, the truth is, these statements contain their own underlying values asserting the idea that love is relative and should be devoid of judgement. In other words, love in any form is acceptable because "love is love" and "love is never wrong."</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Suspending my own values for a moment, such a view of love could only really work in an Utopian society where human beings consistently exercise their freedom to express unconstrained love without violating the freedom of others to do the same. Of course, such a society doesn't exist! In direct contrast to this Utopian worldview is a society where we don't need to look too far beyond our own biases to see where an unconstrained view of love can lead. I'll return to that point in a moment. Here lies one of many problems with this view of love. When what seems or feels right for me conflicts with what seems or feels right for you, neither party has the right to inhibit the other within this framework of thinking, because my view of love is as valid as yours. Apply this line of thought within a community where what seems or feels right causes deep divisions or alternatively finds enough common ground and the definition and boundaries surrounding love becomes a very fluid and messy space. Given the complexity and diversity of humankind, to say that "love is love" and "love is never wrong" with this understanding is naive at best and dangerous at worst. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Back to where this may lead. The pathway for a "love is love" and "love is never wrong" philosophy is completely subject to individual morality which can lead to expressions of love that stray far from previously held values, bringing what was once considered taboo into the realm of acceptability. Earlier, I looked to popular music to illustrate diverse definitions of love, now let's take a brief look at some popular television programs to illustrate this point about the direction of where unconstrained love has actually taken us already...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Big Love</b> (Drama): The story of a polygamist and his relationship with his three wives.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Modern Family</b> (Comedy, Romance): Three different, but related families depicting a gay relationship, blended family, and older man younger woman relationship.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Dating Naked</b> (Reality TV): A reality series in which a man and a woman date two different naked suitors on a remote exotic location.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Married at First Sight </b>(Reality TV): A reality show that follows singles yearning for a life-long partnership as they agree to a provocative proposal: getting legally married to a stranger the moment they first meet.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Seven Year Switch</b> (Reality TV): Four married couples try to save their marriages by entering into a social experiment where the four couples switch spouses and live with another participants spouse for two weeks as husband and wife.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>The L Word</b> (Drama, Romance): Follows the lives and loves of a small, close-knit group of lesbians living in Los Angeles as well as the friends and family members that either support or loathe them.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Skins</b> (Drama): The story of a group of British teens who are trying to grow up and find love and happiness despite questionable parenting and teachers who want more to be friends (and lovers) rather than authority figures.</span></div>
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Games of Thrones</b> (Adventure, Drama, Fantasy): Depicts the incestuous relationship between brother and sister twins in the mythical continent of Westeros, where several powerful families fight for control of the Seven Kingdoms.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Sex and the City</b> (Comedy, Drama, Romance): Four female New Yorkers gossip about their sex lives (or lack thereof) and find new ways to deal with being a woman in the '90s.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">The degree of controversy surrounding the diverse expressions of love represented in this small selection of television programs diminishes the further down the road of relative morality society travels. Follow this journey far enough to its logical conclusion and there will no longer be any limits to what love means and how it is manifested. This presents society with a paradoxical dilemma. How then does society respond to issues like arranged marriages? On what basis can society judge pornography or prostitution as exploitation of consenting women? How can a society legislate against incestuous marriages while advocating to legalise same-sex marriages? Who can really say that polygamy is morally inferior to monogamy? Before you dismiss this line of inquiry as pushing the law of logical equivalence too far, I dare you to have a frank conversation with a group of teenagers about the acceptability of the themes presented in these television programs to see that I have haven't ventured very far down that pathway at all. And in case you want to counter my argument with this is not 'real' love, then my point has been well made.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">If 'love is love' and 'love is never wrong', society has no solid foundation upon which to determine what is an accurate definition or appropriate expression of love other than the moral judgement of the dominant culture. It doesn't take a history major or a sociology and anthropology degree to see how well that has served humanity! So, again I ask...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Who gets to define love?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">What are the parameters for love?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Should there be any limitations to love?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">To answer these questions from another perspective, I offer a biblical worldview that is centred upon the foundational belief that <i>"In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth"</i> (Genesis 1:1). As the Creator of all things, <i>"God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them"</i> (Genesis 1:27), which set the pattern for human sexuality and the parameters for human relationships; <i>"That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh"</i> (Genesis 2:24). Jesus reinforced this pattern and these parameters by referencing their origin when questioned about marriage and divorce, <i>“Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”</i> (Matthew 19:4-5). The Apostle Paul referred to the same origin when he used the pattern and parameters for marriage as an analogy for Christ's relationship to the church, "<i>"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery - but I am talking about Christ and the church"</i> (Ephesians 5:31-32).</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Based upon this biblical foundation for human relationships, which has remained unchanged from Creation to the early Church throughout the entire narrative of Scripture, we are better positioned to respond to these questions about love because we have a point of reference that establishes God as the Creator and the ultimate source of authority to set the pattern and parameters for love.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">"<u>Who gets to define love?</u>"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">The answer is God, the Creator of humankind, <i>"for <b>love comes</b> <b>from God</b>" </i>(1 John 4:7) and <i>"we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us [because] <b>God is love</b>...<b> </b></i>(1 John 4:16). Furthermore, <i>"This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him"</i> (1 John 4:9), so given that <i>"in Christ all the fullness of the Deity lives in bodily form"</i> (Colossians 2:9), it is through the life, teaching and ministry of Jesus Christ that love is both defined and demonstrated.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">"<u>What are the parameters for love?</u>"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">The parameters for love were best expressed by Jesus when questioned about the greatest commandment in the law: <i>"Jesus replied, “‘<b>Love the Lord your God</b> with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘<b>Love your neighbour </b>as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments" </i>(Matthew 22:37-40). According to Jesus, love provides the context for the commandments, which govern the way we relate to God and to each other. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">"<u>Should there be any limitations to love?</u>"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Having established that 'love comes from God' and love is the context for the two 'greatest commandments', it stands to reason that any definition or expression of love that does not align with God's character or violates God's commandments, as personified by Jesus Christ, falls outside the biblical framework for love. These limits have been revealed by God in Scripture, which <i>"is foundational for believers in every generation in that it provides the interpretive framework for the Christian community"</i> (Stanley Grenz).</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Building on this foundation, the Apostle Paul eloquently articulated the biblical pattern and parameters for love in his letter to the Corinthian church to address a number of issues that reflected their cultural biases in the way they related to God and each other. Note how he prefaced his explanation of love in their particular context...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><i>"And now I will show you the <b>most excellent way</b>..." </i>(1 Corinthians 12:31)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Paul was not ambiguous in presenting an alternative framework for love that dismissed any hint of a "love is love" or "love is never wrong" kind of mindset within his audience.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">"If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.</span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. </span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing."</span></i></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">"<b>Love is</b> patient, <b>love is</b> kind. </span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. </span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.</span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><b>Love does not</b> delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. </span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. </span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><b>Love never</b> fails." </span></i></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">"But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. </span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. </span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. </span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known."</span></i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><i>"And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love." </i>(1 Corinthians 13)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">As an 'interpretive framework', Scripture provides a consistent point of reference to understand the depth and breadth of God's love and how He intended His creation to experience and express His love within a constantly changing society. Whether or not you embrace this biblical framework for love is actually not the point of this post. The purpose of this post is to invite you to engage with this biblical framework to stimulate a rethink of the implications of an unconstrained view of love in any relational context and critically examine how that can play out among people who insist on <i>"doing what is right in their own eyes"</i> (Judges 17:6).</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">The alternative worldview I've presented reframes the phrases under discussion with a belief that "love comes from God" and He sets the pattern and parameters for love.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Because...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">"God is love."</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">"God is never wrong."</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">As a postscript, I wonder if you could imagine for a moment how different the world would be if we had the humility to </span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">surrender<i> "what is right in [our] own eyes"</i> (Judges 17:6) and the faith to </span>submit to the Creator of humankind who declared, <i>“My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways”</i> (Isaiah 55:8-9). Imagine if we adopted a biblical framework for love that "is not self-seeking" but instead pursues "the most excellent way"</span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><i> </i>as declared by Jesus (Matthew 22:37-40) and defined by Paul (1 Corinthians 13). Imagine if we actually believed that "God is love" and "God is never wrong" and filtered all of our relationships through His pattern and parameters for love. Jesus not only imagined such a reality but incarnated it through a counter-cultural and kingdom oriented paradigm (Matthew 5-7).</span><br /><i></i></span></span><br />
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EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-52213720235837968742017-07-16T23:19:00.001+10:002017-07-17T09:53:08.010+10:00Throwing Stones or Casting Lifelines<div class="tr_bq" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">During the last Victorian state election we had the leader of one of the minor parties visit our local pastor’s network to promote his political and religious agenda to the churches. He brought along with him a Christian political analyst who passionately explained to us what he considered to be the greatest threat to Christianity and the church today. As I sat and listened to his perception of this external threat from the world around us I found myself disagreeing with him for two primary reasons (even though we did agree on some issues):</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">1. Jesus said, “I will build my church, and the gates of Hell will not overcome it.” (Matthew 16:18)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">2. Jesus also said, “If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.” (Mark 3:25)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">According to my understanding of Scripture, the greatest threat to Christianity and the church today is not external forces but internal division! In other words, it is not atheism or consumerism, secularisation or Islamification, homosexuality or gender fluidity that poses the greatest threat. It is the deep division within the church that cripples the ability of Christians to effectively and biblically engage with these challenging issues in society that is our greatest threat.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">From my observation of the way Christians interact with each other on social media I see the evidence of internal divisions play out almost daily. Out of my 1300+ friends on Facebook from extremely diverse cultural and religious backgrounds, there are those from the far left who would consider themselves as “progressive” Christians and there are those from the far right who would consider themselves as “conservative” Christians; with the left labelling the right as “fundamentalists” and the right labelling the left as “liberals” in often very unloving ways. When you watch both sides of the Christian spectrum interact publically about a number of current issues it is not difficult to see that we are a deeply divided church hell-bent on throwing stones at each other!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">I picture this much like a group of kids from a neighbourhood building forts and engaging in a street battle with two sides bunkered down and throwing stones at each other's fort to see whose is the best. What starts out as a bit of competitive fun between friends who live in the same neighbourhood becomes a battle of egos that crosses the line when a rock penetrates one of the forts and injures someone who is supposed to be a friend. It's not the neighbourhood bullies that are the threat in this scenario but the friendly fire that is exchanged between neighbours. So often, the way Christians behave in the public space is not that dissimilar to way these kids play in their forts out in the street. Despite living in the same spiritual neighbourhood we bunker down behind our forts of theology and ecclesiology, engaged in a fierce battle to protect our respective worldviews. We share the same faith and fellowship as followers of Jesus Christ until we get stuck in the forts that divide and cripple the church.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Out of all the encounters with Jesus recorded in the Gospels, I want to suggest that this story has the potential to profoundly change the way Christians interact with each other and society!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">At dawn [Jesus] appeared again in the temple courts, where all the people gathered around him, and he sat down to teach them. The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before the group and said to Jesus, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?” They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him. But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground. At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” “No one, sir,” she said. “Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.” (John 8:2-11)</span></i></span></blockquote>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">Christians are faced with comparative dilemmas today that challenge the way we respond to the issue of sin in the church and society. While the context may be a little less extreme, the religious conflict remains much the same. There are those who demand that the "righteous requirement of the law" be upheld because we "do not live according to the flesh but according to the Spirit" (Romans 8:4). Then there are those who insist that "there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus" because we have been set "free from the law of sin and death" (Romans 8:1-2). Interestingly enough, these are two parallel yet polarised conclusions drawn from the same place in Scripture. Some pursue a legalistic adherence to biblical truth, while others promote a liberal application of the gospel of grace; and more often than not, one at the expense of the other. Despite the emphasis from either approach, a dualistic response to sin does not resemble the way Jesus responded in the original story. In fact, I would argue that any response that separates grace from truth or truth from grace is a false representation of the gospel. To understand why, we need to take a closer look at what Jesus actually did and didn't do or say in this story...</span></span></div>
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<li><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Jesus did NOT disregard the law of Moses.</b> Instead, Jesus challenged those who assumed to have the authority to apply the law - <i>“Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.”</i> The only person in the crowd who fit that criteria was ironically the One whom the religious leaders were setting up <i>"in order to have a basis for accusing him." </i>Talk about a monumental backfire! What the religious leaders didn't understand is that "in Christ all the fullness of the Deity lives in bodily form" and "He is the head over every power and authority" (Colossians 2:9-11). Their self-appointed authority misapplied the law to enforce condemnation of sin whereas the divine authority of Jesus applied the law to evoke conviction of sin.</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>Jesus DID cast a lifeline of salvation.</b> Another often overlooked dynamic in this story is the self-condemnation that the woman most likely felt standing before a crowd with the shame and guilt of her sin publicly exposed. It is entirely possible that the way she saw herself would not have been too far removed from the way the religious leaders viewed her. Standing condemned in her sin by others or even herself imposed a punitive reaction but by becoming convicted of her sin by Jesus invited a response of penitence. Through the latter invitation, instead of throwing stones we see Jesus casting a lifeline of salvation when He said to her, <i>"Go now and leave your life of sin." </i>Therefore, the transition from condemnation to conviction that rescued her from the crowd also rescued her from herself by providing her with a life transforming opportunity. </span></li>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">In complete contrast to the way many Christians would approach this story today, Jesus demonstrated two fundamental and indispensable principles in the way He interacted with the woman who was publicly shamed and condemned. First, He demonstrated ABSOLUTE GRACE when confronted with the reality of her sin. Second, He spoke UNCOMPROMISING TRUTH in response to her sin. In that order! The sequence of the way Jesus engaged with this scenario is no accident and as important as the two principles in discussion. In fact, it is a manifestation of how John described Jesus in the prologue to his gospel: "...the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth" (John 1:14). </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Instead of throwing stones at each other, the church "full of grace and truth" (John 1:14) with "the same mindset as Jesus Christ" (Philippians 2:5) has been commissioned by Jesus to cast the same lifelines: "Therefore go and make disciples of all nations...teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you" (Matthew 28:19-20).</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Born in the early 70's, raised in the 80's, married in the 90's and a father in the 00's, I have lived through four decades that have produced some pretty amazing music! From the Bee Gees to Billy Joel to Bruno Mars, I've developed an eclectic taste in music from a diverse range of artists. While my very favourite songs cross many genres of music I do tend to gravitate toward songs that are more easy listening in style. Music not only soothes my soul, it also informs my worldview as I engage with the lyrics and the message conveyed by the artist. At certain points in my life some songs have even transcended musical enjoyment by influencing me in a profound way, especially while navigating the space of marriage and fatherhood. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">As a husband and a father there are a few trusted voices I've allowed to speak into my marriage and parenting; first and foremost, God's wisdom through the pages of Scripture. However, certain popular songs have joined this chorus of voices by challenging me through the power of their lyrics. More than just emotional sentiment they have spoken words of truth that have stuck in my head and penetrated my heart in a way that only music can. While these songs have been personal to my own journey, I get a sense through my pastoral interaction with many men in my leadership and ministry context that the issues these lyrics confront seem to be common to other husbands and fathers navigating the same space.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small; text-align: justify;">One of the many mysteries of understanding women for me has been tuning in to and responding appropriately to the need to be told, "I love you" or the like more than once in a day. Too often I have grossly underestimated the importance of expressing out loud, and often, how I feel and what I intuitively know to be true. Whether or not I need to hear it is irrelevant! If these three words or similar words of affection are important to my wife, and children for that matter, then why would I withhold this phrase of affirmation? The uncomfortable paradox is that the more emotionally detached I appear to be, the more these words are needed! And here is a free tip if you really want to build up the emotional bank account with your wife and children. Don't just wait to echo back what they want to hear, throw in a few unsuspected and spontaneous "I love you's" every now and then. As Billy Joel strongly asserts in his song, </span><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="font-family: "trebuchet ms", sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><b>"give her every reason to accept that you're for real."</b></i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">To be honest, this song has always scared the hell out of me as a dad! I don't know how many times I have been so consumed by what I do that I have been inattentive to what my kids need me to be. And that is simply to be fully present in their lives. To be frank, this is as much about the quality of time than the quantity of time I spend with them. No matter how much I justify to myself my busyness or tiredness, neglecting this space comes with an enormous price tag. Turning off the TV, closing your laptop or silencing your phone is a much smaller price to pay to give your kids the time with you they crave. As our kids grow up the dominant infuences in their lives shift from their parents to their peers. We have a limited window to not only enjoy them but to engage with them. The pattern we set today will translate into how they interact with us and their kids tomorrow. The scary truth is they will <b><i>"grow up just like me."</i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">When Kenny Rogers sings, <i><b>"I'm torn between the things that I should do"</b></i> I find myself in a place of conflict every time I see the gap between what I should be doing and what I want to do widened by the competing expectations in my life. This is a challenging space to manage. Every married couple needs personal time and space to pursue their own interests, which is as necessary as spending time together. The problem arises when one is overshadowed by the other. However, my own experience and observations would suggest to me that more often than not us blokes tend to lean a little too far towards fulfilling our own needs. It has also been my experience that when I am more intentional in investing in "us" time my wife is more supportive of "me" time. Try shifting your focus, you might be surprised the positive impact this will have in your marriage!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">This song challenges me at a social level. In my role as a Salvation Army Officer I am seeing the devastating effect that fatherlessness is having on children. Notwithstanding the extraordinary job so many single mums are doing on their own (often not by choice), children need their fathers! Even though the family unit takes on many different forms today, the dominant view still held by sociologists, anthropologists and psychologists asserts that the role of a father in a healthy, nurturing environment is critical to the wellbeing of children and the family unit. Far from intending to criticise families where there has been a family breakdown, it drives my determination to be a good husband and father in my own family and my desire to invest in other men to the same ends in whatever family structure they find themselves. We cannot afford to <i><b>"simply turn our heads, and look the other way"</b></i> any longer!</span></span></div>
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EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-74327346960782464972017-04-27T21:14:00.001+10:002017-04-28T00:07:43.765+10:00Lest We Forget the Innocent Victims of War!<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">ANZAC Day is arguably the most significant public holiday on the Australian calendar, evoking a deep sense of national pride and gratitude for the generations of soldiers who have gone before us to defend our freedoms. Today, ANZAC Day also includes appropriate acknowledgement of a new generation of soldiers who are still actively defending our freedoms in recent and current military conflicts. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">The hallowed phrase "Lest We Forget" should not only be a commemorative statement but a confrontational statement that reminds us of the consequences of war to strengthen our resolve to never again resort to armed conflict. This means if we try to sanitise "Lest We Forget" by censoring the inconvenient and uncomfortable truths associated with war then we've already 'forgotten'.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">So, when a media personality posted on social media the comment <i>"Lest. We. Forget. (Manus, Nauru, Syria, Palestine)"</i>, drawing attention to displaced people as a direct result of fleeing from war zones, I'm a little puzzled at the level of offence this comment has provoked among so many Australians!? Is it a misplaced nationalism? Is it a denial of reality? Is it a prejudice against the nationality and religion of the person behind the statement? Whatever it is, I feel the offence felt by the alleged offensive comment is actually more offensive than the comment itself. To be offended by a reminder of a reality of war when we stand together and say "Lest We Forget" is an unconscionable contradiction that reveals some deep prejudices that dishonour the ANZAC spirit way more than what was said! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">I'm intentionally refraining from naming the person behind the controversy because this raises some ugly issues in our nation that are much bigger than any one person. We seriously need to take a good hard look at ourselves when we get so easily offended by anybody who dares to challenge our national conscience. And we need to stop demonising people who do so and with whom we may disagree.</span><br />
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EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-29822138536456015302017-04-04T23:10:00.000+10:002017-04-04T23:13:57.270+10:00When Politics Cloud Vision<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Few things frustrate me more as a leader than when politics cloud vision! Regardless of the context, a vision worth pursuing deserves the unified commitment of a leadership team to pursue it passionately without being distracted by popularity or discouraged by opposition. The power struggle of politics usually emerges within a team when there is a misalignment of leadership ethos shifting the focus from the end goal to the obstacles encountered along the way. This misalignment will ultimately undermine a strategic approach to vision and get bogged down in trying to manage or mitigate the tactical challenges that are an inevitable part of pursuing any clear and compelling vision. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">The further a vision extends people beyond their present reality to where they could be or should be, the higher the cost is for leaders who cast such a vision; a leadership dynamic affirmed by Bill Hybels who says, <i>"</i></span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><i>The grander the vision the greater the price tag."</i> P</span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">urpose driven leadership will always pay the price necessary to achieve the vision whereas people-pleasing leadership will only seek to manage the conflicting politics that emerge at the expense of the vision. F</span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">or a vision to become reality, </span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">leaders need to remain united and focused as a God-ordained vision is a precious commodity not to be compromised by bowing to the dissenting voices among the crowd. Speaking at a Global Leadership Summit, Hybels is clear about where this responsibility lies: <i>"</i></span><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><i>If God has given you a Kingdom vision, if you see it clearly and feel it deeply, you had better take responsibility for it."</i> </span><br />
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EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-15667835495339297482017-03-17T10:44:00.000+11:002017-03-17T11:49:18.281+11:005 Principles for a Successful Red Shield Appeal<div style="text-align: justify;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiswUyfoHByWaOH7MCQ4BhLC07TXA3sjaH73xoTrHwfRephp270bnfP3TTQo3C9NnL3evAnzg9trQhXpNbLRRonf4VbplvH3ooUOHVCmIasefeMMIFAIv31VHtcpzf0pE5cj9UbWSN3fks/s1600/RSA+1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiswUyfoHByWaOH7MCQ4BhLC07TXA3sjaH73xoTrHwfRephp270bnfP3TTQo3C9NnL3evAnzg9trQhXpNbLRRonf4VbplvH3ooUOHVCmIasefeMMIFAIv31VHtcpzf0pE5cj9UbWSN3fks/s400/RSA+1.jpg" width="177" /></a><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Around this time of year Salvation Army Officers all over Australia are either engaging or avoiding the mammoth task of organising the annual Salvation Army Red Shield Appeal Doorknock<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;"> </span>in their local community, which is held at the end of May each year. While the Red Shield Appeal is still widely supported by very generous Australians it tends to evoke a love/hate relationship from those tasked with the responsibility to recruit and mobilise an army of volunteer collectors. This is largely due to competing demands on the Officer's time, complacency by a growing number of Salvationists and community fatigue from a continuous stream of fundraising events by other worthy charities.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">As somebody who shadowed my parents from my earliest memory as a collector, who graduated to an area captain at age 14 and as a colleague who has coordinated the Red Shield Appeal as a Corps Officer for the past 20 years in four very different communities, I offer these five principles to recalibrate our collective attitude and approach to the Red Shield Appeal...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Irrespective of rank, appointment or position in The Salvation Army we all have a vital part to play. Even if you do not have a direct role in organising the appeal you need to ask yourself, <i>"Am I a servant or steward of the mission of The Salvation Army?"</i> A servant of the mission will do their bit to participate in a good cause but a steward of the mission will take ownership of the same cause. The difference between the two is the degree of resolve you have to do whatever it takes for the mission to succeed! As a servant, the overall success of the appeal is not my responsibility, but as a steward I am a stakeholder in its success.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">I don't know of any Salvation Army Officer who doesn't want to engage their community to advance the kingdom of God through their respective appointments. The Red Shield Appeal provides a powerful platform for this type of engagement with community groups, local businesses and other organisations. Despite recent challenges for The Salvation Army we are still blessed with a high level of community acceptance that provides an open door to build relationships and invite the public to participate in our mission. Once people step through that door, we have an opportunity to cast a 'grander vision' of the <i>'why' </i>behind the <i>'what'</i>, which can provide life changing pathways <span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">for</span> further dialogue and volunteerism beyond the Red Shield Appeal.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">I cannot overstate the importance of networking and nurturing community relationships ALL year round. Waiting until these relationships are <i>needed</i> diminishes the level of engagement that comes from more reciprocal relationships formed before they are necessary. Also, there is a significant difference between approaching warm contacts for assistance than cold canvassing strangers. The energy you invest in this space before the Red Shield Appeal will pay dividends during and after the appeal. You indeed <i>'reap what you sow' </i>when it comes to building community relationships.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><b>The Red Shield Appeal MOBILISES an army.</b><br />There is no other time of year when large numbers of Salvationists and supporters are united around a common cause and mobilised to saturate the community of a local Corps, with the backing of a PR driven media campaign. Even though the goal of the Red Shield Appeal is to collect money the motivation is to resource mission; and our mission is ultimately to spread the good news of Jesus Christ. The Red Shield Appeal gets us out of our Corps buildings and into the community with an extraordinary message of hope that is manifested through our social programs that serve the most vulnerable people in Australia. Who wouldn't want to be a part of that?!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Leadership expert John Maxwell is often quoted as saying, <i>"Everything rises and falls on leadership."</i> A brief overview of biblical and church history, corporate successes and failures, and social and political revolutions, prove this statement to be true! The uncomfortable truth is your attitude towards the Red Shield Appeal will set the tone for the engagement of others. While there is much about the Red Shield Appeal you cannot control, your attitude is on you. It is a choice. It's a choice that will influence the participation of your congregation and community.</span></div>
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EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-83626587286600930712017-01-31T18:58:00.000+11:002017-01-31T22:20:51.263+11:00A Culture of Dishonour<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">In the wake of two significant election campaigns in both Australia and the United States I am becoming increasingly disturbed by an emerging culture of dishonour towards people who carry a mantle of leadership. More than ever before, leaders from all sectors of society are confronted with complex issues and diverse worldviews that significantly raise the stakes of leadership and increases hostility towards those who dare to lead. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">In recent days I have read so much dishonouring name calling and have seen too many demeaning "memes" on social media by leaders toward other leaders that is far from constructive and does little to address very real issues. Irrespective of which side of politics you align with or what religious views you adhere to, effective leadership demands a level of honour that transcends opposing points of view to engage in respectful and robust dialogue with those in authority who view the world very differently to yourself. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">I am not talking about blindly following a leader into darkness. Nor am I suggesting a mediocre tolerance of all policies or ideologies. Neither do I think leaders should never be challenged. In fact, <i>“I want to argue that the solution to ideological discord is not “tolerance” in the post-modern form we frequently find it, the bland affirmation of all viewpoints as equally true and valid but <b>an</b> <b>ability to profoundly disagree with others and deeply honour them at the same time</b>” (</i><i>John Dickson, "Humilitas"). </i>This is not simply agreeing to disagree under a facade of political correctness but a depth of character that demonstrates humility and honour in the face of fierce disagreement. </span></span></div>
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EphesiansFour12Missionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622800640358391813noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2892216005445713299.post-22435744142157399912016-12-31T12:50:00.004+11:002016-12-31T12:50:53.106+11:00LEADING FROM THE TRENCHES: Facing Your Fears<div style="text-align: justify;">
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